Last night there was an incredible storm, the kind that has your umbrella turn inside out and nearly lift you clean off the ground, a storm so wild, that if you had some sparkly red shoes on, you’d click them together and hope that they might take you to some fabulous island, with a coconut juice, warm white sands and a towel that has your name on it.

The storm felt like the last gift of my birthday, like the winds whipped up an incredible force, just to help blow the past a little further behind me and create the opportunity to tread a new path, right around the fallen tree that blocks the road I used to walk.

Another unexpected gift that arrived yesterday was a remarkable email from a Maybe McQueen community member. It was a story of extraordinary loss, unthinkable challenge and the just mind-blowing ability to stand back up, after being knocked down so hard, that if it were a boxing match, the ref would have stopped the fight.

As I begin a fresh year I am humbled, inspired and practically peeing my pants with the excitement at what is possible, available and present in my little life.

So I, of course, invite you to explore what is in store for you. To look at what it might take for you to get back up, even when it feels like laying there and closing your eyes, is the only choice you have.

However hard the fall, big or small, a scar that will change your face forever, or a little graze that will dry in the wind, the one thing I know, is that we all have the capacity to find our way back. How long that journey takes and the path you choose to get there, is up to you…..

 

  • raelynn32768

    You are such a unique soul….. Honestly, I can’t Thank You enough for your amazing outlook, and optimism! Much Love to you and your little wonders!!! XXXOOO

  • Irena

    I love storms!  Still waiting for mine…so many obligations…so many obstacles…
    Hope you’ll be able to ROAR down that new highway of yours!

    • Vashti

      A storm always comes when you are least expecting it, unless you create your own x

  • Ana Paola

    what you write makes me think of many good things, things I know, I can do to improve my quality of life and leave behind all that hinders to move forward, thanks!

  • SandraEcher

    Thank you so much! It’s been a rough couple days for me and your words are exactly what I needed! I don’t think you realize how profound your words are, Vashti. Again, Thank you!

  • Sarah Stewart

    While you may have been introduced to the world b/c of your husband’s stardom, I read your blog for you, Vashti.I read it b/c YOU are a dynamic, creative, compassionate soul with a side of kick-butt-takin’-names-attitude, & topped off with humility, humor & a great sense of being.I celebrate the day you were born & am thankful you are willing to share your life’s insights.Happy Birthday to beautiful woman & wonderful mother! xo

    • Alexiscarril

      So well said Sarah!

  • Meleza Lumley

    I couldn’t agree more Sarah (Stewart)……I simply love reading Vashti’s blog
    and twitter feeds.  She brightens the world and makes me look ahead in my life
    with more positive thoughts as she does have a way with words and certainly has
    a way in reaching out to people and making them feel more positive and strive
    forward in our lives to make something of them – to be happy, content and
    cherish every single day.  Love you Vashti! xxxxx

  • http://twitter.com/mareen_manuela Mareen Manuela

    Your words are like poetry or a really good book for me. I deeply enjoy your kind of thinking and the way you put your feelings into every little word you write down for us… and for yourself :) You are a gift, Vashti.
    It’s relieving to see that a person can and will cope with the challenges of life. Thank you.

  • Malin

    Seriously ! Vashti, why don´t you write a book about Andy´s whole life ? You are a so talented writer ! 

  • Susana Matos Nunes

    I understand and agree with you but I’m in really trouble! I’m trying so hard to push my sister up and just don’t know how to do it anymore! Today my niece is ok but the 26 months they pass knock her really down… she’s not crazy but she’s given up of herself and for more words that I try to tell her, and for more things that I try to remaind her to do…..
    I feel that I’m loosing her….
    I’ve already told her to read your inspiry words, from someone who lost so much, but she only “feels like laying there and closing your eyes, is the only choice you have.”
    ……
    I just want to yell real high and cry all day long, I’m feeling so tyred….
    I wish I have more power to fix it all. all over the world!!!!

  • Beth Forrester

     You are so right Vashti, we all have the capacity to find our way back from even the worst wounds, I’ve witnessed it many times. I had the privilege of working with a large group of clients who I got to know extremely well over the years and they would tell me things that no one in a million years would guess they had been though. Despite enormous loss, tragedy or illness they suffered, they were living their lives to the fullest. I had no idea what some of these happy, loving, wonderful people had been through until they shared their darkest moments in life with me……I realized just how resilient the human spirit is, capable of healing the deepest wounds.  They always inspired me with their strength and finding joy again despite their tragedy, it was always a valuable & important lesson for me to hear!

  • June

    I think sometimes the weather surprisingly connect with ours feelings and souls..i dont´know if we make this weather changes or if it´s the wrong way round..but happen..it´s the magic world..like someone tells me one time we have to live although only just to curiosity..i love your words..nice day vashti

  • Kristi Hayes

    “Learn from yesterday, live for today, hope for tomorrow.”
    There is so much I have gained from my experiences. Those bad things help me to be grateful for the good. What we gain from those experiences is perspective.
    I read your blogs often. I admire your strength and I can’t thank you enough for your motivation/inspiration.

  • Harry

    I can testify that what you say is true! In spite of spirit and/or inclination & sometimes because of it…we not only fight but somehow find strength with the love of life to look your fear and challenge in the face and that…well that’s harder than anything to find the strength for that…and it’s true sometimes just laying there, would be great, but when you stand back up and get past the bambi legs moment…there’s an exhiliration and I can testify that even the weakest become strong! Trust me on that! Do you ignore? or rise above the pain of the past?

    For me, if I hadn’t stood up after the first knock down, I would have missed some extraordinary moments, if after the second, I would have missed out on time with one of the most inspirational people in my life and after another knock down, because of him, I stood up and I stood tall (for 5″ that’s saying something!) and in a month’s time I’ll be taller still hoping that my reward for persisting life and chances taken will be the fear, the trepidation, the excitement like you say…and knowing you are very much living life….

    You write so well, give hope to people….help people believe that anything is possible…Thank you for taking the time to share. Can’t tell you how much it’s appreciated!

  • Pam Stewart

    I do not believe anyone gets through this world without a few knock down fights to see it through to the end.  I know I myself have had a few of those and find myself still standing for forging forward…so I love this blog Vashti and storms as well…as always thank you for your sharing your own journey…I come here almost everyday to see how it unfolds for you and get some very inspiring and creative forward thinking and attitude….you rock this blog and my mornings with my morning tea.

  • http://twitter.com/Lisbmari1 Lismari

    Love reading your blog(o:

  • Annett

    One of best german songwriters, Herbert Grönemeyer lost his wife Anna on cancer. He came back with this wonderful homage for Anna:
    THE WAY – I can no longer seeDon’t believe my eyes  any moreCan hardly believeFeelings all turned aroundI’m much too lazyTo give upBesides it would be too soonBecause there’s always a wayWe were bound togetherWould have died for  each otherBent the rain into a bow1Lent each other our trustWe tried toTurn while  schussingNothing was too lateBut much was too soonWe have shoved each otherThrough all the tidesWe got sidetracked togetherLoved desperatelyWe denied the truthThe best we couldIt was a piece of heavenThat you existEvery room youFlooded with sunEvery frustrationYou turned aroundNordic nobleYour gentle goodnessYour untamed prideLife isn’t fairDanced the movieIn a silver roomFrom a golden balconyWe stood in awe of eternityHelplessly sunken, drunkenAnd everything was allowedTogether in time-lapseMidsummer-Night’s DreamEvery room youFlooded with sunEvery frustrationYou turned aroundNordic nobleYour gentle goodnessYour untamed prideLife isn’t fairYour confident strideYour true poetryYour serene dignityYour unshakeable  graceYour destinyYou defiedYou never betrayedYour plan for happinessYour plan for happinessI’m not leaving hereI’ve extended my stayNew time travelOpen worldI have you safeInside my soulI’ll carry you with meUntil the curtain fallsI’ll carry you with meUntil the curtain falls

  • Simo P

    Dear Vashti you are quite right ….. as a teenager I lost two wonderful people …. for me they were all my life …. Today that am a woman and mother of three children they left me their teachings, their immense joy and love they had for me. I would tell you it’s just a memory, but even now as I write I’m crying …. I am comforted just knowing that anywhere they are found don’t suffer anymore. We rises again because we surrender to life despite you would want all to stop. They were hard times for me … also economically … but today I am still here able to experience new emotions. I will have forever a scar in the heart but I haven’t need to surrender me.
    Happiness is the joy of a moment …
    I must tell you that for me to write is a bit therapeutic …. I stop and think for a moment … since the days fly fast …
    Thanks and Good-bye Vashti

  • Alexiscarril

    Thanks for this!

  • Krissy

    Am now ready for the day after my Vashti-fix! I really could’ve done with having you around 13 years ago. But looking back, I got up anyway. With the help of incredible friends and family, and a bit of self belief (not much, but a bit), I did it.
    Getting up, washing your face and looking at your kid’s faces is sometimes all it takes. 
    Not sure if I’m making any sense, but hey-ho….
    Thanks Vashti. x

  • Sarah

    You are such an inspiration Vashti and I’m so happy to be connnected with you again. Thank you for getting in touch, you are amazing and I look forward to reading your blog with everyone else xo

  • CoastalGirl

    Thanks so much for posting this! I was having a VERY crappy day, and this was a nice little pick up :-)

  • http://www.facebook.com/PennyDouglas Penny Douglas

    As someone who has overcome extreme hardships, tragedies, abuse, cruelty, life threatening health problems, sufferings,  and many other horrific things, I can say that I came through it all with being at such a place of love and care in my spirit, for all the lessons and things that I endured. I am writing a book in hopes that it will help to inspire others to also be able to be inspired and walk ahead with love and humility! Vashti, I have shared with you some of the things that have happened, and when I do finish writing my book, you will see just how finding Andy and seeing how he was, got me through another very traumatic time and inspired me! I have been able to reach out because of Andy to people all over the world, in our mutual admiration  of him, but it goes much deeper than that, in a way that most might not understand. I know that it happened for a reason to me, and I am so glad it did. Even the strongest people go through down times, and feeling like we cannot go another day, but we do! I have survived and I am full of love and care for others! Vashti, you inspire so many and we all love you guys so very much!! Thank you for all you do!! All my love, Penny <3 <3 <3